Continued From Page 1"Oh yeah, I know Frank," Jim said.
Then he eyed Manny, with a grin.
"And you know this guy, too," he said. "Well, I won't hold it against you."
We chatted a bit more, and then we each moved on to speak with others.
Jim had a seat on the dais that night, and I was seated nearby at Manny's table. After leaving my table for a quick trip to the lady's room, I came back to find that someone was sitting in my seat.
"There's an empty seat next to Jim McGreevey," Manny said, missing nothing.
"C'mon," he said to me, "Go sit with him."
Manny, it appeared, was intent on filling a number of roles, and the one that was foremost on his mind this evening was matchmaker.
"Manny . . .," I said, a note of mock exasperation in my voice. In truth, I was not interested in taking Manny up on his matchmaking services because I had been dating someone for nearly a year, and had recently called it quits. He was a nice guy, but he wasn't comfortable with how independent I was, nor how busy I was with my civic and political involvements, and I wasn't about to change. Still, despite my self-imposed "break" from dating, I was interested in sitting down, so I joined Jim on the dais where soon we were chatting easily in between the evening's interminable speeches.
I hated these dinners and went only because my friends were hosting and would have been upset if I didn't. Thankfully this event happened only once a year. The previous year's dinner had been unquestionably odd. The Duke, a fastidious-looking man with a prominent mustache, had greeted the guests not only in uniform, but wearing a rubber snake around his neck. It had always been hard to take him or his speeches seriously, but now it was impossible. And yet, here I was again, listening to him ramble on, first in Portuguese and then after that in English, feeling more than anything like a kid stuck in high school detention. In this mood, I was quite ready to strike up a conspiratorial conversation with a fellow detainee. That happened to be Jim.
"I don't know what this guy is actually saying, but he sounds like he's certain he's going to save the world," Jim whispered.
"Actually, he's saying the salad was good," I replied.
"He does this every year?"
"Every. Single. Year."
"Any references to the snake?" I had already told Jim about the Duke's rubber snake.
"Not yet. Maybe by the time he works his way through the menu and is ready to
praise the dessert?"
It was more than easy chatting. I felt a kinship with Jim right away. We were bantering as if we'd known each other a long time.
When the Duke's speech was over, we continued talking.
"How many people are going to speak?" Jim asked me.
"Too many," I warned him, rolling my eyes. I liked this man. I liked laughing with him and, truth be told, I liked flirting with him, too. But there was more to it than that. We connected. We talked about my job doing community outreach, patient relations and public relations at St. James Hospital, and about Jim's work on the Health Committee of the State Senate.
"If there's anything I can ever do for you, let me know," he said. If anyone were listening, and I'm not even sure I was, they might have heard the sound of a door opening.
Excerpted from 'Silent Partner' by Dina Matos McGreevey. Copyright 2007 Dina Matos McGreevey. All rights reserved. Published by Hyperion. Available wherever books are sold. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.